Gifts for some children are very important. They look forward to their parents returning from vacations and business trips. They can’t wait to see what new thing they will receive. However, parents need to be mindful of making sure the other love languages their child needs are met.
If their love needs are not met in any other areas and they don’t feel the love from parents except with gifts, they will have problems. A child can feel like the only thing the parents care about is to give them things, not their time and love.
A gift along with knowing the person really loves you makes the gift special. Your child will know that you love them and that they purchased the gift with you in mind. We went on a trip one time and I brought our girls the same thing. I heard one say something about them being the same. I felt really bad after that. I should have thought more about each of their likes.
3 For I say, through the grace given to me,
to everyone who is among you,
not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think,
but to think soberly, as God has dealt to
each one a measure of faith
4 For as we have many members in one body,
but all the members do not have the same function,
5 so we, being many, are one body in Christ,
and individually members of one another.
6 Having then gifts differing according to
the grace that is given to us, let us use them
We need to be careful not to use gifts as payments for chores or a bribe to stay busy so you can accomplish a task. These types of gifts make a child feel unloved and that receiving the gift is only if they do what is asked of them.
Jacob sent gifts to Esau to make sure that he would be received well after cheating Esau out of the birthright.
3 Then Jacob sent messengers before him to Esau
his brother in the land of Seir, the country of Edom.
4 And he commanded them, saying,
“Speak thus to my lord Esau, ‘Thus your servant Jacob says:
“I have dwelt with Laban and stayed there until now.
5 I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, and male and female
servants; and I have sent to tell my lord,
that I may find favor in your sight.” ’ ”
What types of gifts are special to your kids?
 The New King James Version. (1982). (Ro 12:3–6). Nashville: Thomas Nelson.
 The New King James Version. (1982). (Ge 32:3–5). Nashville: Thomas Nelson.